the territories of relationship, intimacy, sexuality and attachment are central to our lives and to our happiness. they are also a place where so much suffering occurs, where the gap between our hopes and longings and what comes to pass are vast.

we are living in a time of hunger, expectation, longing, ambition in this part of our lives.

here i gather a number of - very different - resources, which may offer us support, insight, etc as we negotiate/move through this territory…


Esther PerelEsther is recognized as one of the world’s most original and insightful thinkers about couples, sexuality, and the peculiar paradoxes besetting modern marriage in the Western world. Her mission is to create an inclusive conversation about relationships and help people feel more connected.  



Mapping the Terrain of the Heart:

Undefended Love